Building Informed Confidence

Resources and tools to help you face fear with courage and move toward what matters most

The Bravery Framework

Bravery is not the absence of fear. It's understanding the fear and doing it anyway. To build informed confidence, we need to get over the "fear hump" through two strategic approaches:

The Bravery Framework diagram showing increase momentum and decrease fear strategies
1Increase Momentum

What am I running toward?

Remind yourself of the positive outcomes and the better future you're working to create.

What am I running from?

Consider the cost of inaction—what happens if you don't face this fear?

2Decrease Fear

Worst-case scenario planning

Define what could go wrong and create contingency plans to reduce uncertainty.

Assess likelihood

How likely is the worst case to actually happen? Often lower than we imagine.

Key Insights

"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than fear."

— Franklin D. Roosevelt

"Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome."

— Brené Brown

"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality."

— Seneca

Further Learning

Daring Leadership

Brené Brown

Dare to Lead
The four skill sets of courage: vulnerability, values, trust, and resilience
The Power of Vulnerability
TED Talk on embracing vulnerability as a source of strength

Fear-Setting & Stoicism

Tim Ferriss

Fear-Setting Exercise
Define your fears instead of your goals to overcome decision paralysis
Stoicism 101
Practical philosophy for high-stress environments and anticipatory resilience

The Courage Quotient

Robert Biswas-Diener

The Courage Quotient Book
How science can make you braver through the mathematics of courage

Radical Candor

Kim Scott

Radical Candor Framework
Balance caring personally with challenging directly for brave leadership

Crucial Conversations

Kerry Patterson et al.

Crucial Conversations
Tools for talking when stakes are high using STATE skills